The risk your child runs by being involved with extremists means you will want to help them to understand what could happen, and encourage them to leave.
Sadly, there’s no magic wand you can wave to make them change their mind, but non-judgmental conversations can make a difference.
Don’t expect it to be easy – people involved in the far-right can be defensive and angry if they feel their beliefs are being threatened.
The good news is you don’t have to do this alone.
The advice below is the collective wisdom of other parents who have helped their loved ones get out of extremism and go on to lead normal lives.
The main thing is to avoid arguing and telling them they’re wrong – it could push your loved one further away.
Far-right groups are experts at brainwashing. You may be shocked to find your loved one now holds beliefs that are just not true.
Avoid telling them they are wrong or dismiss their views – after all, who likes to be told what they should and shouldn’t believe?
Sometimes with the best will in the world it’s hard to even get the conversation started. If you are in this situation, please get in touch. We can suggest ice breakers to encourage your loved ones to open up.
This is real life and your conversations won’t always go the way you expect.
If arguments start, the smart move is to take a break. Suggest making a cup of tea or walking the dog – or tell them you have a chore you must do, like going to the shops. This will give you the space you both need.
Once the heat is out of the conversation, ask if you can continue it another time. That leaves the door open to talk again, which is important.
Above all, try not to feel disheartened. It’s a long road, but helping your child is possible. And we can help.
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